If a woman has to deploy this underhanded “trick” to get herself married I wouldn’t marry her and neither would any other self-respecting guy.
Who would like to live the rest of their lives wiht a c*nt like that?
I don’t think her refusing to be exclusive until engaged makes her a c*nt.... Fact you want to call someone names for that choice, I think really speaks more to your character than hers.
I really don’t see a “trick” here, if a man truly wanted to be exclusive with her for the rest of their lives, then he really shouldn’t have a problem asking her to marry.
I don’t think that’s the best way to start a healthy relationship, but its hardly a “trick”. After all, what reason should a man or woman have to be exclusive, just because the other one desires it, but offers no benefit for it?
Pretending you are pregnant is a trick... being completely honest and up front that you have no intention of being exclusive until engaged is not a trick.
"She...doesn't want to waste time being someone's girlfriend for years, especially when he has no clear intention of offering her marriage or the commitment she wants.
'The way the system is built, masculine men who aim to settle down themselves and want to commit and have a family, will love a decisive woman who knows what she wants and will give her the commitment she deserves, if they are serious about her and in love.
If not, they will say no and that helps both parties to move on quickly, without giving false hopes or promises.<
The system only ensures that you don't offer full husband benefits to such a man, that only wants to offer you girlfriend status.
I can't really find fault with that. The woman doesn't want to give a guy unlimited sex who has no intention of making a commitment to her.