This article entangled concepts that are not even related, when it compares cultural interpretations of reality and quantum mechanics. For example, some languages have many words for snow. We see the same snow they do, and we even see the same variations of snow. But we only have one word because to us, the distinctions between types of snow do not warrant inventing new words. And if it is important to distinguish between two types of snow, we still have the ability to describe them.
Another thing is that the weirdness of quantum phenomena does not manifest at the macro level where we exist, except in the e!event of random chance. If it did, scientific research would become impossible. We may have different languages to describe what we see, but scientists studying the same thing do, in fact, come up with the same results no matter where they are or what language they speak. Or, in simple terms, a person with XY chromosomes and normal hormones and hormone receptors is still a man, even if he calls himself a woman and wears a dress.
Gender identity is a function of the dominant aspect of consciousness, regardless of gender.