My cousin got married 35 years ago and joined the Episcopal Church because his new wife was a member. He’s watched the church for years sell its soul to devil. I’ve told him he needs to tell her they’re getting out. He hates the direction the church has went. I always thought he wore the pants in the family but she put him in his place and refused to leave. I told to be a man and take control of his marriage. We didn’t talk for a few months, then he cooled off and started speaking to me again. He’s still attending this liberal church. Maybe one day he’ll take control of his house. I hope so.
I’d love to be a fly in the wall when you all are gathered together around the Thanksgiving table.
It's less important that he makes her leave, than his withdrawing his support and presence. Let her go to her church on Sunday without him, while he seeks correct scripture elsewhere.