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Why Don’t More Men Take Their Wife’s Last Name?
The Atlantic ^ | July 25, 2018 | Caroline Kitchner

Posted on 07/25/2018 9:54:57 AM PDT by C19fan

In the run-up to marriage, many couples, particularly those of a more progressive bent, will encounter a problem: What is to be done about the last name?

Some have attempted work-arounds: the Smiths and Taylors who have become Smith-Taylors, Taylor-Smiths, or—more creative—Smilors. But there just isn’t always a good, fair option. (While many straight couples fall back on the option of a woman taking her husband’s last name, same-sex couples have no analogous default.)

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To: C19fan

Hispanics usually have two last names or “apellidos.” The first surname is their father’s surname (known as the “apellido paterno”), and the second surname is their mother’s maiden name (the “apellido materno”). Some examples:

Juan García Reyes
or
Juan García y Reyes

Carla Rodriguez Calderón
or
Carla Rodriguez y Calderón

http://www.spanish411.net/Spanish-Hispanic-Names.asp

I see nothing wrong with this long standing custom.


21 posted on 07/25/2018 10:17:20 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd
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To: BenLurkin

Guy’s supposed to be the big spoon?


22 posted on 07/25/2018 10:17:26 AM PDT by Samurai_Jack (War is cruelty, there is no use trying to reform it; the crueler it is, the sooner it will be over.)
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To: C19fan

Take my wife...please!

Image result for take my wife henny youngman

23 posted on 07/25/2018 10:17:28 AM PDT by ETL (Obama-Hillary, REAL Russia collusion! Uranium-One Deal, Missile Defense, Iran Deal, Nukes: Click ETL)
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To: Olog-hai

In that regard, it’s interesting that “Madison” is a popular name for a girl — technically, it comes from being “Matthew’s son”…


24 posted on 07/25/2018 10:18:59 AM PDT by mikrofon (Humpday BUMPty)
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To: C19fan

25 posted on 07/25/2018 10:20:37 AM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: C19fan
same-sex couples have no analogous default

Same sex "couples" need to quit dedicating their lives to perversion and delusion.

26 posted on 07/25/2018 10:22:02 AM PDT by NorthMountain (... the right of the people to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed)
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To: C19fan

Why Don’t More Men Wear Their Wife’s Underwear?


27 posted on 07/25/2018 10:22:04 AM PDT by ETL (Obama-Hillary, REAL Russia collusion! Uranium-One Deal, Missile Defense, Iran Deal, Nukes: Click ETL)
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To: bk1000

Empress Maria-Theresa Hapsburg married Charles of Lorraine. There were no males. The continued line became known as Hapsburg-Lorraine.


28 posted on 07/25/2018 10:23:40 AM PDT by C19fan
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To: Conan the Librarian

They’re setting their daughter up for failure.


29 posted on 07/25/2018 10:23:44 AM PDT by DesertRhino (Dog is man's best friend, and moslems hate dogs. Add that up. ....)
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To: Delta 21

Thank you for the simplest answer. Either marry your husband or not - the hyphens and different last names drive me nuts.


30 posted on 07/25/2018 10:27:11 AM PDT by GnuThere
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To: C19fan

Korea doesn’t even have this type of thing. Everyone keep their name.


31 posted on 07/25/2018 10:28:39 AM PDT by napscoordinator (Trump/Hunter, jr for President/Vice President 2016)
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To: C19fan

The only time it’s justified in my opinion is when the man just has a crappy last name.


32 posted on 07/25/2018 10:30:20 AM PDT by Behind the Blue Wall
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To: mikrofon

So is “Kelly”, which was originally masculine and has the meaning of “bright-headed” or “warrior” and later euphemistically meant “churchgoer” in some locales.


33 posted on 07/25/2018 10:30:27 AM PDT by Olog-hai ("No Republican, no matter how liberal, is going to woo a Democratic vote." -- Ronald Reagan, 1960)
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To: C19fan

Duh
Morons
Trying to just eliminate REAL MEN that’s all


34 posted on 07/25/2018 10:35:37 AM PDT by Truthoverpower (The guvmint you get is the Trump winning express !)
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To: ETL; newgeezer
Why Don’t More Men Wear Their Wife’s Underwear?

I accidently did once because she put them in my underware drawer. Boy did she get a beat'n!

35 posted on 07/25/2018 10:41:05 AM PDT by DungeonMaster (...the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light...)
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To: C19fan

JMHO of course, but WTFF?


36 posted on 07/25/2018 10:45:50 AM PDT by Rannug (When you're dead, you're dead. Until then fight with everything you have.)
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To: C19fan

Why should a man take his father in law’s name?


37 posted on 07/25/2018 10:47:08 AM PDT by xkaydet65
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To: napscoordinator

In Korea nearly everyone is named Kim.


38 posted on 07/25/2018 10:47:50 AM PDT by DuncanWaring (The Lord uses the good ones; the bad ones use the Lord.)
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To: C19fan

We all know why. We are just not allowed to say.


39 posted on 07/25/2018 10:48:54 AM PDT by donna (Arizona senate: Kelli Ward supports President Trump. McSally is a RINO.)
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To: C19fan

The libs just HATE traditions.


40 posted on 07/25/2018 10:51:33 AM PDT by 1Old Pro
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