[cuban leaf]

My first wife basically turned that list on it’s head, as I’m sure many women do.

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Mine too. That was for 20 years. My second wife and I just celebrated our 20th anniversary and she lives by that list. We both serve each other. It is the main secret to a happy marriage. It’s all about the Gift of The Magi.

[Albion Wilde]

We both serve each other. It is the main secret to a happy marriage.

Yep! The man perpetually courts the wife and the wife perpetually caters to the husband, to keep a good thing going.