Maggie Thatcher count?
No. I didn’t say “had a woman leader”. I said matriarchal society. Not the same. Thatcher was an exception, most of western history has had men in leadership with the occasional female on top. Show me a society where they base is women running the show with only an occasional man in the top job. There have been a few in ancient history, goddess worshiping stuff with high priestesses and the like. All of them seem to collapse within a generation or two. That’s why I said to show me one that thrived, not plodded along for a couple of decades and they fell apart.
I think of radical feminism as a sort of self-exclusion program, it warns off the unwary male.