Work on a more perfect self. People live decades seeking others to fix their problems when the problem is YOU.
Read non fiction and then attend support groups is the ONLY WAY to improve oneself fundamentally. The better you become as a person, the more and easier it becomes to attract quality people.
A more quality person is not attracted to a lessor quality person. A hard worker is not attracted to a lazy person.
Older people have problems that you look at and say, wow solve that years ago, like heavy drinking. Quality folks do not want to relive the same problems.
The flip side is I have seen divorced people immediately hook up with other divorcees. They are not looking for Mr. or Mrs. Perfect. More power to those type of folks as they rehook up rather quickly.
That’s a nice quality post, reflects lots of wisdom.
I always told my kids that people don’t come with warning labels, that you need to learn to figure out who people really are.
So much misery in life is because people mislead others as to who they really are.