What I was getting at, is that Jeb! is the elephant in the room driving Bush family animus towards President Trump.
If Jeb! can get by it, Trump gets invited; if he keeps pouting, then there’s no invitation. I think the rest of the family will go along with his decision to sulk or not to sulk.
Bush 43 hates Trump who criticized the invasion of Iraq and defeated Jeb who was supposed to be the next Bush in the WH. Talk about a sense of entitlement.