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Nurses and doctors told not to call patients ‘love’ or ‘dear’ [Ireland]
Irish Times ^ | 12/03/2018 | Brian Hutton

Posted on 12/03/2018 8:50:50 PM PST by Olog-hai

Nurses and doctors in Irish hospitals have been urged not to call patients “love” or “dear”, the HSE has said.

Other pet names, such as “girls”, “lads”, or “boys”, should also not be used by medical staff on wards, under new recommendations from the health executive to ensure staff in hospitals speak in a way that is “person-centered”.

Healthcare workers in hospitals have been further instructed to avoid referring to patients by their bed number, diagnosis or affected body area.

“Do we talk about ‘feeding people’ instead of assisting with meals, or refer to someone coming back from theater as ‘the hip’/‘the hernia’/‘knee’ etc?” the HSE advice states. “This is a powerful exercise to help raise awareness of how depersonalising some commonly used language can be.”

The recommendations, issued in a report responding to a national patient experience survey, prompted some to lament the passing of “how are you feeling, love?” and other informal expressions.

Michael O’Keefe, a consultant ophthalmologist at the Mater hospital in Dublin, said the recommendations were political correctness “gone mad” at a time of an acute hospital bed shortage and soaring waiting lists for operations. …

(Excerpt) Read more at irishtimes.com ...


TOPICS: Health/Medicine; Society; Weird Stuff
KEYWORDS: eussr; fartyshadesofgreen; hse; ireland
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To: Olog-hai

“I’m not programmed to respond it that area”


21 posted on 12/03/2018 9:59:12 PM PST by headstamp 2
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To: knarf

Téigh fuck duit féin


22 posted on 12/03/2018 10:16:46 PM PST by laplata (The Left/Progressives have diseased minds.)
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To: Army Air Corps

Yes, let’s take humanity out of personal interaction. What more can be said.


23 posted on 12/03/2018 10:41:28 PM PST by bytesmith
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To: Olog-hai

Well den, how about ‘’fecking ejit’’? Eh? Can we call somebody a ‘’fecking ejit’’?


24 posted on 12/03/2018 10:41:38 PM PST by jmacusa (Made it Ma, top of the world!'')
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To: Secret Agent Man
I've worked in three nursing homes, two hospitals and I am currently working in a third hospital. I have held the hands of dozens of frightened and lonely elderly people and made them smile or laugh. We are emotional beings and our emotions have a physical component. A warm touch and a soothing voice does wonders for the human soul and body. I got off work two hours ago. Tonight in the ER I met "Art''. Art is a combat wounded, Purple Heart and Bronze Star Vietnam veteran of the 1st. Infantry Division. He was in for a very bad foot infection. He has no family. Lives alone. When I saw the little pins for The Big Red One and his citation on his cap, which also included a Combat Infantrymans Badge I knew I had made a friend. I sat and spoke with Art for about a half hour. I shook his hand, thanked him for his service and he was very glad to have had me listen to him.
25 posted on 12/03/2018 10:54:07 PM PST by jmacusa (Made it Ma, top of the world!'')
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To: DesertRhino

As another person that has been in the medical field for 40 + years, it is considered unprofessional to call someone dear or honey. While some do appreciate and may even prefer it, most do not. You start by address people by their name and title and if they tell you to call them Barbara, or Sue or some nickname, then you have their permission, and then address them in the way that they wish to be addressed. But if you aren’t given that permission then you are imposing a pet name on someone that may consider it derogatory. I have heard nurses call their patients, “Honey”, “Grandma”. “Sweetie”, etc. Once the nurse leaves the room, the patient growls about it.


26 posted on 12/03/2018 11:06:18 PM PST by notpoliticallycorewrecked (Will the last responsible person leaving California, please turn out the lights.)
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To: jmacusa

Its clear they want more patients to die off in from their illnesses and injuries.

Putting thi rule in place is proof positive. THEY KNOW ABOUT THE STUDIES. If I do, they sure as hell do.

They want more folks to die off. Keeps socialized medical care costs down. More money for abortion and muslim scum immigrants.


27 posted on 12/03/2018 11:06:44 PM PST by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not Averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: Olog-hai

Leftists doing their best to remove all simple pleasures from life...


28 posted on 12/03/2018 11:10:38 PM PST by Unam Sanctam
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To: Olog-hai

“By the way, now that we legalized abortion, don’t be calling them dang fetuses babies no more!”


29 posted on 12/03/2018 11:54:55 PM PST by FLvoter
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To: susannah59
I’ve been a nurse here in the US for over 30 years. Calling people things like “honey” has been discouraged here for many years. I was taught that it is disrespectful, which makes sense to my Southern way of thinking.

I remember years ago going to a diner with a female friend and the waitress called her "honey". When the waitress walked away, she gave a death stare and started telling me how she hated when a stranger would use a familiar "pet" name with her just because she was female.

All I could think was "I'm male and I get called 'honey' and the like all the time by waitresses and clerks and stuff. It's just the way some women interact with others. Doesn't bother me a bit and I don't read anything into it other than it's friendly banter, In fact, I think it's pleasant". But I didn't want to become part of the problem in her mind so I kept all that to myself.

30 posted on 12/04/2018 12:18:51 AM PST by pepsi_junkie (Often wrong, but never in doubt!)
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To: Slyfox
I've had patients bite me..club me..sock me...pinch me...pull me..grab me..lick me..spit at me...puke on me....

I still treat them....the way I was raised to treat them.

31 posted on 12/04/2018 12:54:59 AM PST by Osage Orange (Whiskey Tango Foxtrot)
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To: Olog-hai

It seems to make it a colder and less personal world, rather than being “person centered”. It’s the opposite.


32 posted on 12/04/2018 2:32:38 AM PST by ifinnegan (Democrats kill babies and harvest their organs to sell)
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To: Olog-hai

Guess they would not tolerate this either (from TOS episode “Tomorrow is Yesterday”)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D038kpNIRDM


33 posted on 12/04/2018 2:33:03 AM PST by OttawaFreeper ("The Gardens was founded by men-sportsmen-who fought for their country" Conn Smythe, 1966)
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To: notpoliticallycorewrecked

You sound totally politically correct.

Despite your moniker.


34 posted on 12/04/2018 2:36:00 AM PST by ifinnegan (Democrats kill babies and harvest their organs to sell)
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To: Roccus

Ive always wanted to reply “I’m fine, doc, but you look like sh*t!”.

CC


35 posted on 12/04/2018 3:22:12 AM PST by Celtic Conservative (My cats are more amusing than 200 channels worth of TV.)
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To: notpoliticallycorewrecked
As another person that has been in the medical field for 40 + years, it is considered unprofessional to call someone dear or honey. While some do appreciate and may even prefer it, most do not. You start by address people by their name and title and if they tell you to call them Barbara, or Sue or some nickname, then you have their permission, and then address them in the way that they wish to be addressed. But if you aren’t given that permission then you are imposing a pet name on someone that may consider it derogatory. I have heard nurses call their patients, “Honey”, “Grandma”. “Sweetie”, etc. Once the nurse leaves the room, the patient growls about it.

I insist I shall be called "Widdle Bitsy WHOOPSY loveykins puddin' KITTY KITTY itsy-bitsy WIGGIMS wovey-dovey pumpkin' patch MOOPSY BOOPSY kwinkle-tinkle"

If I am not called that, I will petition Congress for arrest of all involved.

36 posted on 12/04/2018 3:25:11 AM PST by Lazamataz (You know, when I advised Democrats to vote AFTER Nov 6th, I didn't think they'd actually DO it.)
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To: knarf

“I’m sure that there’s a gaelic word for GFY.”

(P’ogg mahoinn!)

You’re welcome.

CC


37 posted on 12/04/2018 3:27:18 AM PST by Celtic Conservative (My cats are more amusing than 200 channels worth of TV.)
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To: Olog-hai

Maybe they can make an exception for those serving patients meals......”Anything else for you, hon?”


38 posted on 12/04/2018 3:49:36 AM PST by trebb (Those who don't donate anything tend to be empty gasbags...no-value-added types)
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To: Celtic Conservative

I thought that was kiss my ass


39 posted on 12/04/2018 4:20:07 AM PST by knarf (I say things that are true; I have no proof .... but they're true.)
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