Men need to learn how to talk in society. Watching and liking porn makes you an expert in masturbation, not in being a normal social person who has a passion for women , understanding them and thus relationship piloting.
The reason porn might work for women is because women have not the same learning curve and effort level to make in order to access men.
Men have to do all the work in dating, not women. Porn dispenses men from the work and thus dispenses them from relationship seeking or abilities. It shrinks the brain over time.
Part of your analysis is great, but women DO have to work at dating.