I’ve always found that men look better, the older they get. First they lose the soft, blah-ness of youth; then their faces get very sharp; and after that, they soften, their characters and the real substance of them begin to show through. Older men are usually more all-around handsome and interesting than they were when they were young.
This happens to some women, too; but time - or is it culture? - isn’t nearly as kind to us.
I’ve recently been reading mysteries by an Italian author who writes that ‘women shouldn’t have to get old’. But I would be sad if men didn’t get old, because to me, they’re always more attractive old, than young.
It’s estrogen loss AND gravity......both.
I think it all depends on the person. Some older women are like most men, who go for the younger versions. I have known some men who prefer the older versions of women as well, not just older younger women either. Then you have those who are younger that go for the richer older person, for their wealth. That is all they see in the person.
Menopause is brutal on y’all
No question