So the money is “mine” and “yours,” not “ours.”
Just get divorced now. You aren’t really married anyway.
Whoa, divorces cost a fortune. Buy a boat and fishing pole, get a dog, learn how to cook, read books, eat steaks, enjoy the quiet, hire a house keeper, sleep in, and screw the honey do list. I should be this lucky, sheeeshh!
It would probably minimize your pain to do it sooner rather than later.
And it is his money, not hers. Its probably the only reason he has money left.