It is sounding more and more likely that HM is not objecting to most of the couples’ antics, because she believes the rumors that Harry is not from Charles, but from a bodyguard of Diana’s.
So if he is illegitimate, he can marry a mixed race woman, and no skin off her nose.
Since for many years Harry was third in line to the throne, do you think for one second the senior royals would never had his DNA checked? (eye roll).