Yup, horror stories abound and are seemingly the norm as opposed to a rarity
Our society is broken and the system is corrupt and is destroying the basis and foundation for a healthy relationship
The solution is to avoid the system by signing a a fair and mutually agreed to marriage dissolution contract before the wedding so if you don’t make it in the marriage, the dissolution is quick, as painless as possible and gets done without lawyers on both sides ending up with the bulk of everything you have built in your marriage
There really is no other way.
Nope.
As a matter of fact, that is an absolute unsolution.
The correct solution is what we disgarded to get to this point. The person who does something to end the marriage pays a penalty to the injured party they are disgarding.
That is the system which has been proven to work for centuries. It got in the way of chasing selfish hedonism, and was discarded. That mean that there is some panacea out there that will make one party discarding the person they entered into marriage not cause horrible damage.