Of course, there's consequences for choices......but that's what makes it a choice to begin with.
Womens expectations of other women are so much higher that the expectations for men. It drive me crazy watching my wife stress of what she is going to wear, how she is going to do her hair or how much makeup she has on because she does not want to be judged by other women.
Back in the day, when you could tell such jokes, there was one that went like this:
How can you tell which one is the bride at a ______(Fill in the Blank)_________ wedding?
She’s the one with the braided armpits.............