A job or any profession or hobby is what you do. It is not who you are.
“A job or any profession or hobby is what you do. It is not who you are.”
Here in America, perhaps, or perhaps not in all cases.
MY KIDS CLEAN MY SWORD Bloodthirsty Saudi executioner describes love of beheading as he reveals victims strength drains away on arrival at Chop Chop Square
The dad-of-seven says he got his taste for beheading while working in a prison
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/8972644/saudi-executioner-beheading-chop-square/
As an experienced executioner, 42-year-old Al-Beshi is entrusted with the task of training the young. “I successfully trained my son Musaed, 22, as an executioner and he was approved and chosen,” he says proudly. Training focuses on the way to hold the sword and where to hit, and consists mostly of the trainee observing the executioner at work.
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2003/jun/06/saudiarabia.features11
He also told me to have 3-6 months savings for the bills in case I walked away, got fired or quit. I quit and had great bosses for decades at the new company.
Our adult children have said the same thing including to never argue with a hot headed cop.
Both had abusive bosses. They quit and let their former boss's boss know why. Both were hired back with a raise and the rectums/former bosses were fired or demoted and had to report them.