And you are a female murderer apologist. First stinking post on this thread you are crying for her. Shes 56 years old, if the kids are beyond her capability you ask for help and maybe get them to people who can handle their problems.
I sincerely hope you find yourself in similar situation someday.
You should read a few articles about how severely autistic children behave. I certainly don’t think the woman should have killed her grandkids. But the accounts I have read of severely aggressive autistic children are horrifying. I would NEVER be able to care for a violent child who only sleeps one hour a day. Some parents turn their autistic children over to the state, because they cannot take care of them, and have no money for the outrageously expensive private institutions. That would be heartbreaking, but of course, preferable to killing them. Maybe Arizona has no such centers, or has a long waiting list. Obviously, the grandmother felt completely helpless, as in, no where to turn. I’m kind of surprised she didn’t take her own life, as well.
Why, sure --you just snap your fingers and *poof* help appears.