Does he have a lawyer? They tell their clients to do nothing retaliatory or have any communication with the ex because they will handle it. Of course, that’s expensive. At the end my son owed his attorney over $10,000. Everything came to a screeching halt when the step-father, who was behind all of this, suddenly ended up in the loony bin. Turns out he was bipolar and had gone off his meds! He lost his job, his wife left him for a few months, and he was evicted. Karma at it’s finest, lol.
He does have a lawyer and he’s down $5K already.
It’s a sick game.