My wife had emergency surgery last week. She was wheeled out of the ER. (I was only allowed in because we were both employees of the hospital system and I promised to be a good boy.) I said goodbye.
I picked her up at the door last Thursday. I could talk to her, but no visitors. The only exception was if she was dying.
It was very hard driving away that night.
My BIL is in with sepsis. Frankly I’m concerned if he’s going to make it. They will not let my SIL in to see him. She can only talk to him on the phone. Hope your wife is OK.