No less a crooner than Frank Sinatra called the George Harrison song Something in the way She Moves the greatest love song ever composed.
Today, Love is just sex and sex is nothing special. If you are female you are suppose to fall over with your legs spread any time anyone (male or female) shows any sign of interest or else you are "surrendering to the patriarchy".
If you are male you are suppose to screw anything that will hold still.
In no way shape or form are you suppose to embrace the deeper or richer emotional attachments that used to be considered necessary for sex to be meaningful. It is about as elevating as taking a dump.