No. I am not saying that. I am only saying I understand the extreme difficulty of the female in that position. It is still abortion, but like capital punishment in criminal offenses, it is an exception for “murder” we might make. Yes, it is horrible choice the female will have to live with, and G-d willing will come to peace and forgiveness with G-d over the rest of her life. But at the time, I can understand how the trauma of the female can lead her to that choice. We can pray that G-d will rescue the unborn child at the end of this age, and in time rescue the mother as well.
You have not thought this out very well. You need to acknowledge that abortion is a shorthand euphemism for the deliberate killing of an innocent human being before it is born. Murder (the unjust premeditated killing of one human being by another) does not belong in quotes here because that is what abortion is, but is not what capital punishment is. And capital punishment differs completely from abortion in that the condemned is not a defenseless, innocent human baby. I suggest you look this issue straight in the face and see it for what it is. Only then can you have a clear grasp of the issue.