Going back to about 1982 to 2004 (marriage) I’ve had about eight girlfriends. One of them was my heartbreak. Every single one of them has tried to come back to me, even the heartbreaker. I’m proud to be good friends with most of them to this day. Her husband found the strength to move on and that’s what reallllly drives her crazy. Just a guess from my own experience.
That’s exactly right. Based on an divorce site that I was part of for awhile, women like this get the most upset if their ex-husband that they dumped ends up marrying as well or even upwards from the woman in question.
Men’s relative choices get better with age, not worse.