“Its all just a natural phenomenon until you see the meat.”
The way it works is it does not exist for you until you experience it. Other people’s experiences don’t count for you.
There is a branch of philosophy that describes this attitude:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solipsism
Its about Shared empirical evidence , and establishment of fact.
Its elementary dear Watson.
Show me the meat. Or its all FLUFF.