I will grant the gay thing, but there was still, beyond that, a really skewed sex ratio. The majority of the bridge&tunnel crowd was women. All those downtown offices ran on women. Out of towners looking for entertainment? Women.
“Tales of the City”, Armistead Maupin, was entirely accurate, very well observed. That was the scene (not the gay-obsessed later books) there was. Mary Anne, the character, was an entirely accurate psychological portrait of the typical girl in SF at the time. I ran into “Mona” too, God help me.
Had a buddy that was married with children working in the SF area for the last 45 years. He used to mildly complain that as the gay culture advanced he was hit-on by women at a ridiculous rate in the 80s and 90s. The last 20 years (now a widower) he now says the women are so radically leftist they are repellant.