I hope you didn't take anything I directed at trajanus_red to be directed at you. If so I apologize for the confusion...
If you are reffering to your comments to trajanus_red, I didn't see anything you posted as meanspirited. I'm the one who posted that I think he or she is an idiot, which could possibly be taken as meanspirited, though I consider it nothing more than my personal opinion based on my observation of his/her posts... :)
Take care Free Trapper.