Help me out on your viewpoint. On a personal note, would you describe the thought process or the day that you made the decision to be heterosexual?
Interested in the decision process for this so I can warn my neighbors that they are really hurting their kid. Maybe they'll abandon the kid or put it up for adoption. For the good of the kid of course.
Was wondering your thoughts on how homosexuals can come out of a heterosexual marriage.
Here's a great place to start.
Homosexuality and GeneticsWhile I realize you're not really interested in what science has to say on this matter, others are.
People become involved in homosexuality (that is, develop Same-sex Attraction Disorder (SAD)) through three main traumas, Being molested or otherwise abused (normally sexual molestation but physical abuse can also lead to this disease), Having an absent or insufficient relationship with one's father, or relentless teasing by one's peers during the formative years (self-fulfilling prophecy). By far the most prevalent is molestation.
So it's highly likely that the kids were recruited on the side. It's quite possible that the parents knew nothing about the abuse going on (mine didn't). It's true that the parents failed to protect their children properly.
Help me out on your viewpoint. On a personal note, would you describe the thought process or the day that you made the decision to be heterosexual?
Let me try to explian this to you again in simpler terms.
One never chooses to be heterosexual. That is the normal state of being. Everyone is born heterosexual and they remain that way unless (or until) some trauma happens that they don't, can't or won't recover from.
Look at it this way. A transexual person with XY chromosomes is born male. That is the default. He remains male until some trauma happens (he undergoes surgery and hormone therapy). He never chooses to be male, he chooses to deviate from the default.
Likewise human sexuality is fixed. A mentally healthy human will always be heterosexual.
Interested in the decision process for this so I can warn my neighbors that they are really hurting their kid. Maybe they'll abandon the kid or put it up for adoption. For the good of the kid of course.
That would be a very good thing to do. The child is at immediate risk due to poor role models and no relatiuonship with her father. (now they may see another manifestation of the no-father problem. In girls it sometimes result in high levels of promiscuity as the girl tries to "find" her father through contact with other men)
I strongly recommend reading the database. (But then you might be forced to open your eyes and it may be painful to you