Charlotte's not bad if your a techy. That market's weird all over, so North Carolina's basically the same as everywhere else.
Most of the smaller communities like Hickory have volatile economies, so I wouldn't immediately relocate to a place like that.
As far as being conservative, NC is weird. Any town with a college (Winston, Greensboro, Raleigh, Chapel Hill, Durham, Charlotte, Wilmington, Asheville) are all extremely liberal places. Very artsy...very pro-homosexual. The rest of the state is fine.
Austin?
Commie pigs if you ask me.
Depends upon what you mean.
For long guns, there is no such thing.
For handguns, you have to go and get a pistol purchase permit from the Sheriff of the county in which you reside.
This is a remnant of the old Jim Crow laws which were enacted to keep blacks from having concealable weapons.
You have to take proof of residence (a utility bill), a government-issued ID, and a character reference (you bring somebody with you.), you fill out the form stating that you aren't in any of the categories of folk that are prohibited from having handguns, you pay for your permits, and you come back in about a week [during which they run the requisite background checks] to pick them up.
Permits are $5 apiece, you can get up to 5 at a time, and they're good for five years.
You give them to the seller of the handgun (this even applies to private sales and inheritance, although the law doesn't say what a seller is supposed to do with them.)
The waiting period incorporated in the permitting process also takes the place of the Brady waiting period.
Concealed handgun permits are also obtainable-- NC is a shall-issue state. I'd suggest you check packing.org or grnc.org for details.
Job wise, like the previous poster posted, kind of weird. Tech area here is RTP (Research Triangle Park). We were hit pretty hard with downsizing with the .com bust. Things are coming back but fairly slowly in some areas. Guess it depends on what you're looking for.
Politics here is pretty liberal. I hear that the Charlotte area is more conservative than Raleigh though. NC goes R for Prez but D everywhere else pretty much.
I'll post a link to your thread on the NC board. We have a lot of members in the area you're inquiring about, they can probably give you better info than I can.
I would pick a state w/o state taxes if I were you. TX has no state taxes but is overrun with illegals, well NC is pretty much getting overrun with them too.
MKM
Depending on your field, the best area of NC for tech work, by far, is RDU and the Research Triangle Park. Suburban/rural counties of RDU are growing rapidly and are still conservative.
On the weekends you can go to the mountains or the coast, the people are nice, lots of FReepers...We love it here. If you haven't visited already, you might do that before moving.
Lived in NC all my life. Can't help ya though - I'm too far to the right - over near the coast.
Thank y'all kindly for the input - it's been extremely helpful.
It's still not exactly decided where we'll be moving to yet, but it's nice to know that wherever my wife and I go, we'll still have THIS community (FR) to count on! :-)
We have the highest tax rates in the Southeast.
I live in Morganton, so you can freepmail me if you like with questions. It is not too hard to get a concealed carry permit and NC has the death penalty. You can get by without too much interference from social services provided you put your foot down if they come snooping (they probably won't). I'm happy with the political situation locally. BTW Burke county has two new high schools planned and there is a big new development at the lake in the works if those are considerations for you.
This is a good link to the development at the lake. Be more specific about what kind of job you are looking for and I might be able to tell you where to start looking.
Big government is getting more prevalent every day. I'll let others answer the gun question. My shotgun sits pretty quietly most of the time, only occasionally going for some sporting clays or to rid the garden of a particularly pesky varmint. The General Assembly has passed a number of laws in the last ten years giving social services pretty egregious access to your personal business. Comparatively speaking, we are less liberal than Maine or New York, but also far less libertarian than either Virginia or South Carolina.
Values - as South Park put it, "tolerant" means you put up with something, not embrace it wholeheartedly. I'm looking for a place that values nuclear families, Christian values, neighborly attitudes, and personal responsibility. Being tolerant of other lifestyles shouldn't mean a gay pride festival every two weeks.
That basically comes down to whether you live in a city or a rural area. We are still part of the bible belt, but Charlotte, Durham, and Raleigh all have seen gay pride parades. I think Durham has several every year. In rural areas, you will be disaffected pretty quickly if you have a tendency to drink a lot, work on Sunday, or engage in loose sexual habits. Quite a dichotomy.
Economy - I'm a tech guy: do you think I will be able to find computer work out that way? Does the place feel abandoned or like it is growing?
I'm a thirty-year IT veteran myself. Tech is thriving in NC. Unfortunately it happens to be doing so around the most liberal areas of the state. IBM, Sun, AT&T, and Lucent all have major presence in NC. And of course, NC is the home of Red Hat Linux. You may have to be willing to commute long distances to live a conservative life-style but still enjoy the fruits of a tech salary. I drive 50 miles one way every day.
Kids - How are the schools? Recreation? (Readers Digest names Morganton as one of the second best places to raise a kid - still think this is true?)
The public schools are atrocious and getting worse all the time. Do not even consider putting your children in NC public schools. They are nothing more than socialist indoctrination centers and they graduate crops of functional illiterates every year. On the other hand, NC is very friendly to school choice. There are a lot of church-based private schools as well as many of a secular nature. And NC has a strong Home-Schooling community.