It is
not ridiculous. A twelve-year-old
child is not capable of giving informed consent for sex. The child's feelings of infatuation or sexual enjoyment do not legitimize child rape. The double standard is that people like you seem to think that it's ok for a teacher to take advantage of her position to groom a child for a sexual relationship and seduce that child as long as it's a boy! Do you look on him fathering two children at that age as a positive thing? How can you possibly think that this was not a horrible thing to happen to him? How would you feel if the teacher was a man and seduced him? Differently? How do you explain that double standard?
It's just sick and sad that he still thinks he's "in love" with a woman old enough to be his mother who took advantage of him as a child. Or would you tell me that it's possible for a child to have a healthy, loving sexual relationship with an adult? Go join NAMBLA, then.