And the codicil to the author's premise, which I don't see mentioned in this review, is: If he's not that into you, there is NO WAY you can make him be so. Sleeping with him, withdrawing from him, trying to make him jealous, giving and giving and giving, being the most wonderful woman in the world--all of these are pointless exercises that wiill just involve you more deeply and painfully and will delay the time when you can find someone who
does love you.
Men want what seems difficult to obtain and therefore valuable. Remember that. Get yourself a tattoo with those words. Write it on the ceiling over your bed. It's a fact of life, like football on Sunday. Let it be.
A friend of mine (she's deceased now, God rest her soul) used to say a lot, "Men want what they can't have." ;)