Of course. But since guys aren't the ones who buy these sappy self-help books, they're written for women.
Ms. Lewinsky had the same sort of troubles with Bill. Sad.
If women would only return to their biologically-destined, submissive role in a relationship and behave within the bounds of civilization, they would have no worries like this.
The best self-help is self-realization of the Self and acceptance.