When my wife and I were dating 35 years ago, we wrestled all the time. My children wrestled all the time as they were growing up. This was FUN and TICKLING each other and so forth. FWIW, I do not support this. Further, I do not support women in the military if they are there to hunt husbands. Military is to execute WAR COMBAT solutions.
From experience, it isnt that bad. Just look at what I posted further up.
The coaches can hold great sway on this issue. Girls can hold their own in the lower classes at well. You would be surprised :)
and no it isnt at all sexual. Wrestlers have respect (they are supposed too at any rate) for each other...