Wild at Heart was the most incoherent book I've ever read.
This article explains what the Etheridge may have been trying to communicate--it certainly isn't what he wrote.
Tedious, tedious reading.
Maybe you shouldn't have smoked crack before you read it. It was pretty obvious to me and my wife what the point of the book was - be a real man not a wimpy, bleeding heart, metrosexual.
My experience couldn't have been more different. An extremely inciteful and timely call to arms for the spiritual battle in which we all engage, knowingly or otherwise.
I completely agree with you both. If you want to find out God's will for you, READ THE BIBLE. Start at the beginning, read all the way to the end, then start back over again.
And you're right, the book was incoherent.