I intend to be a stay at home wife. I have received some flack from people who think it means I must be lazy. But I want to make a home, I want to cook, bake, and engage in volunteer work in my community.
There are so many things women who stay home can do. Volunteering in the community is necessary in every community. So many organizations began to hurt for members when moms entered the workforce.
That goes for SAHMs as well as wives. It is a trap of thought, and it is one that I believe drives many new mothers back into the workforce when, in their hearts, they would rather be at home with the kids.
After my fist was born, I was all set to go back to work full time after 12 weeks partially-paid maternity leave. It wasn't the need for $$, I just thought, "Well, if hubby is going to be working 50 hours a week, I've got to do something." I didn't go back to work, but I felt tremendous guilt for not doing so. Then, I realized--homemaking and raising kids is a job, and I had to start thinking of it as such. I don't get a paycheck for homemaking, but I keep my house spick and span, I make the meals, I look after the finances, I do the laundry, I help with the homework, I keep the car in running order, I am active in the community. I do more work now then I ever did in my former career (retail management).
The $600,000/year CEO cited earlier on the thread couldn't handle my job!!!