At 49 bone tired after working two jobs , he needs to get up off the bed and start looking for ONE job.
Give me a break , I worked 2 and sometimes 3 jobs at one time sure I was tired, but my working 2 jobs allowed my wife to stay home and actually raise the kids instead of having to farm them out. Now they are married I am retired and life is good. If thing s happened and I had to get out tomorrow and work thats what I would do, I wouldnt lay around waiting for someone to hand me a living. We have thousands of illegals crossing the borders every day finding work, and they send half of the pittance they earn back home. Stop whining get off your azz and find a job.
My dad's young married life was a bit like yours...he worked two jobs while going to school, first finishing his bachelors, then masters and Phd. We were teenagers when he finally had the time to finish writing his doctoral thesis.
Now he didn't work manual labor, he had an office job, and taught school in the evenings.