Your grandfather was indeed a typical victim. People over 40, many of them had been exposed to a similar enough virus to have antibodies. Children seemed to have good resistance. But young adults had not. The epidemic went through the Army camps like wildfire.
The Army lost far more men to the influenza epidemic than it had in the Great War.
There are two good books on this epidemic -- one is by the author of this story, Gina Kolata (it's the more dumbed-down of the two -- she was a TV reporter at the time).
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That is NOT the reason the young died more than the older folks. The flu provoked an extreme reaction of the immune system. Younger people, who had healthier immune systems had their lungs destroyed by the over reaction of their immune systems. The older people got real sick, and recovered slowly.
Details can be found in John M Barry's book: "The Great Influenza"