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Babies can be free of diapers
News 14 Carolina ^ | 5/13/2006 | Martie Salt

Posted on 05/13/2006 10:59:21 PM PDT by Lorianne

TAMPA, Fla. -- It can save you thousands of dollars and cut down on the mess and smell. If you are tired of changing diapers, how about potty training your baby before their first birthday!

Generally doctors tell parents to wait until their toddler is ready, but some parents are going to the other extreme and are potty training their infant.

Josie is 5 months old and yes, she is going potty on a toilet.

"It's not really about potty training, it's about communication with my daughter," said Sara Ulm, Josie’s mother.

Five-month-old Josie Ulm uses the toilet. It's called elimination communication, or EC. Ulm heard about it from her sister. So to prove her sister wrong, Ulm put Josie on a potty chair when she was 2 months old. She had her cell phone there to video tape it, and what happened surprised her.

Three months later, Ulm knows Josie's toileting signals. It means less mess, less diapers and no diaper rash.

"It's very rare that she goes poop in a diaper," Ulm said.

And Scott Ulm, Josie's father, said, "I don't mind changing a diaper. But if it's avoidable, I'm there."

Katherine Abbey runs a support group in Tampa, Fla., for parents who practice EC. She said, while many still use diapers, they use them as a back up to a pottytunity. Katherine explains a pottytunity as simply offering the potty to the baby.

Katherine Abby offers a pottytunity to her son. "It's not about being trained earlier although that's kind of a side effect of EC," she said while offering a pottytunity to her 16-month-old son after his nap.

Josie's toileting habits even impress her big sisters. Natalie Ulm said she thinks it's great and older sister Isabel is just happy she doesn't have to change diapers anymore, but also said she doesn't mind videoing her little sister and showing it off.

If you would like to learn more about EC, there are several Web sites that offer information and support groups including whatisec.com and diaperfreebaby.com.


TOPICS: Business/Economy; Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: potty; pottytalk
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I'm not to sure about this. Seems like it could lead to all kinds of problems down the road for people. Potty-training is serious psychological stuff.
1 posted on 05/13/2006 10:59:23 PM PDT by Lorianne
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To: Lorianne

It's a catch program.


2 posted on 05/13/2006 11:01:50 PM PDT by CindyDawg
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To: Lorianne
If that doesn't work there is going to be a lot of dirty carpets.
3 posted on 05/13/2006 11:03:24 PM PDT by april15Bendovr
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To: Lorianne

Aint been no stinking, expensive diapers in this house. Never would waste the money on the things.


4 posted on 05/13/2006 11:08:07 PM PDT by BJungNan
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To: april15Bendovr

It seems to me that all this is based on is the fact that the parents are idiots. They want whats best for THEM not the baby. Diaper rash is a result of letting a baby sit around in a dirty diaper.

It also sounds as though they are SERIOUSLY trying to RUSH their child to grow up! Diaper changing isn't that big a deal. These people are willing to risk their childs future mental health because they hate changing diapers?! gimme a break!


5 posted on 05/13/2006 11:12:13 PM PDT by annelizly
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To: Lorianne
I first heard about this from Russia, where parents couldn't afford disposables and didn't like cloth. They would push their kids to potty train well before their first birthday.

Considered borderline abusive abusive in the West, now it has become a favorite among new parents.

Go figure.
6 posted on 05/13/2006 11:12:18 PM PDT by texas booster (Join FreeRepublic's Folding@Home team (Team # 36120))
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To: Lorianne

Weren't the hippies trying to push this a few years back do to the build up of used disposable diapers in landfills and the "damage" that detergents (from washing cloth diapers) do to the environment?


7 posted on 05/13/2006 11:13:44 PM PDT by trubluolyguy (Appeasable Border Hawk)
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To: Lorianne

This whole subjects stinks!


8 posted on 05/13/2006 11:17:43 PM PDT by derllak
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To: Lorianne

Potty-training is serious psychological stuff.
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Only in the West.
This isn't about potty training the child - it's training the parent. I looked into it when my daughter was born two years ago. Apparently this is done with great success in Asian countries where they don't have diapers (or at least not like we do.) I didn't have the time or the patience to watch for her every cue - it just wasn't practical for us - more power to those that can make it work. Im a little tired of buying Cinderella Pullups when we have plenty of Cinderella panties that she just doesn't like as well.

:)


9 posted on 05/13/2006 11:20:44 PM PDT by justche ("Art, like morality, consists of drawing a line somewhere." G. K. Chesterton)
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"Katherine Abbey runs a support group in Tampa, Fla., for parents who practice EC. She said, while many still use diapers, they use them as a back up to a pottytunity."

Oh god, what have we become!?!?! Pottytunity? Support group? I can just imagine that support group, "Timmy just won't take to the toilet, and that means I still have to change his diaper. Can you believe how selfish my son is being? I need a hug."


10 posted on 05/13/2006 11:21:15 PM PDT by Romanov
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To: texas booster
Yup.

Bro-in-law is married to a recent come-overer from Archangelisk (sp?)Russia who raised two daughters there: she finds it troubling that westerners would wait so long to engage the sphincter control thingy in their younguns ...considers it lazy and negligent. Both her kids were on the throne before their 1st Bday. The daughters are exceptionally normal.

11 posted on 05/13/2006 11:22:21 PM PDT by dasboot
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To: Lorianne

I have no idea if this is a good idea or not, but when it was the norm for many women to have another baby nearly every year the goal was to have baby off the bottle and at least started on potty training by the time new baby arrived. So this is something that was at one time very common. My mother said two things ended it; with reliable birth control women spaced babies further apart so they wanted to allow baby to be a baby a little longer and Dr Spock said it caused damage to baby's psychological well being.


12 posted on 05/13/2006 11:22:42 PM PDT by Tammy8 (Build a Real Border Fence, and enforce Immigration Laws!!!)
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To: Romanov

This is one reason why my daughters (16 and 13) have told me they aren't having kid until they are at least thirty. They recognize that they are selfish, no matter that they are young, and figure they'll mature by 30 and be able to afford kids.


13 posted on 05/13/2006 11:30:42 PM PDT by trubluolyguy (Appeasable Border Hawk)
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To: trubluolyguy

I waited until I was 40! ;)


14 posted on 05/13/2006 11:33:27 PM PDT by Romanov
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To: Lorianne

My brother is married to a German woman. After toilet training their daughter, he informed me that he couldn't take her into a hardware store, because if she saw a toilet she would start screaming hysterically.


15 posted on 05/13/2006 11:43:30 PM PDT by Mr Ramsbotham (My ding-dong wasn't big enough, so I cut it off.)
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To: Lorianne
Josie is 5 months old and yes, she is going potty on a toilet.

Wait until one falls in and drowns and then we will see them backpedalling on this.

16 posted on 05/13/2006 11:54:19 PM PDT by taxesareforever (Never forget Matt Maupin)
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To: Romanov

I waited until I was 40! ;)


My ex wife and I had our first at 20, so I'll be 38 when she steps out into the world, 41 when the youngest follows. Still lots of life to live.

Yes we were pretty young and not at all financially prepeared for children but I think that's where my girls get the idea to wait. They will make good mothers but they want to have the finances set and a stable home before raising kids.


17 posted on 05/14/2006 12:01:57 AM PDT by trubluolyguy (Appeasable Border Hawk)
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To: Lorianne
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"I like diapers. I think they're sexy."
18 posted on 05/14/2006 12:05:21 AM PDT by Old Seadog (Inside every old person is a young person saying "WTF happened?".)
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To: annelizly

What you said!


19 posted on 05/14/2006 12:07:33 AM PDT by mother22wife21 ("Moral squalor does not remain stationary, it descends and it accelerates."- JasonC)
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To: trubluolyguy
Wow, find you on another thread with a similar interest. I will be 39 when my youngest leaves home. And, yes, I had them way too young. I preach on that subject to them every chance I get.

Be secure, be stable, get all of those kid wants and desires out. Enjoy some of your youth.

Oh, and I potty trained them before they both turned two. Couldn't stand changing diapers. Come on, the kids are learning to walk, talk, eat, and every other imaginable thing, but it is traumatizing to learn to potty?
20 posted on 05/14/2006 12:11:14 AM PDT by ican'tbelieveit (Join FreeRepublic's Folding@Home team (Team# 36120), KW:Folding)
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