[Bogeygolfer]

"I don't understand why someone who doesn't believe in God would wish to belong to a church or even go to one unless they have some doubts about their own disbelief."

I think there are many good reasons to go to church despite one's doubts. The mistake here was allowing him to join the church rather than just welcoming him and encouraging him to attend. I'm sure there are many atheists and untold agnostics who appreciate the good that churches do.

[twigs]

That's an excellent point. Our church went through the 40 Days of Purpose program last year and it attracted a lot of "seekers." They will not be allowed to join the church until they accept Christ. But a lot of them have gotten very involved in the life of the church. I think it's very, very healthy.