I wonder if Fay is married? If she is, this book must be a shock to her husband! If she is single than apparently she hasn't been faking it too well. LOL!
Divorced and remarried, with four children.
Between the lines, she's saying that finding a true "soul" mate in a man, husband and lover, are incompatible for women. So stop trying to alienate half of the voting population who actually bother to pay attention and vote.