[slightlyovertaxed]

My 13 year old is a virgin and prayerfully will remain that way through high school, college and until after the wedding reception. She doesn't need to be tested at this point.

Please, take my cynicism as it is meant, but how do you know? It is very possible she is doing things you don't know about with people you would least expect. It's like driving without a seatbelt on because you know you're a good driver.

[brwnsuga]

Do you have any children? You would know like I know. My kids are either at school or sports and when they are not, they are with me and my husband. So far, I have picked her friends and if I don't feel the friend or the friend's family is up to my standards (good Christian home) she cannot spend time with them. AND she is not allowed to have boyfriends or take calls from boys right now.