If you think China is your real friend then good luck. Just look at the numbers. In 10 years you'll see who's dealing cards in Asia.==
With China we have no problems. But with West we get the new real threat just now so we need to counter that threat with new nuclier missiles. So you see.
In next 10 years we will see. But you are right there are no real friends at all. The peace are to be supported only with brute force. To make peace we need the wishes of both parties. To make war the wish of only one party needs. Russia has no choice now. So russian scentists ought to work to create even more formidable weapons. But remember Russia didn't start that new arm race.
Your country's population is declining, and even with Russia's windfall from oil revenues, it is still growing (economically) much slower than the PRC (China). In the future, what is to stop the PRC (China) from taking over Russia by force? The Chinese population is around 10 times that of its Russian counterpart. Chinese could then take Russian oil and gas without paying the Kremlin/Russia.
Yes you did. Russia's Iranian and North Korean clients threaten the US. We develop anti-missile systems to meet the threat of Russia's rogue nation allies, and you take it as a threat to you personally. Maybe because you are closer to the Iranian jihad and the NorK communists that we even think. Maybe you are all one and the same.