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The Generation Of 'Damaged' Girls
The Telegraph (UK) ^ | 2-20-2007 | Sarah Womack

Posted on 02/19/2007 7:19:14 PM PST by blam

The generation of 'damaged' girls

By Sarah Womack, Social Affairs Correspondent
Last Updated: 2:13am GMT 20/02/2007

A generation of very young girls is being psychologically damaged by inappropriate "sexy" clothing, toys and images in the media that are corrupting childhood, leading psychologists warn today.

They say marketing takes unfair advantage of children's desire for affection and the need to conform, leading to eating disorders, low self-esteem and depression.

Their report echoes a warning by the Archbishop of Canterbury, Dr Rowan Williams, and follows a United Nations study last week saying that British children were the unhappiest and unhealthiest in the developed world.

The American Psychological Association's report says inappropriate marketing is leading to the sexualisation of children by a consumer society. Apart from clothing for five- and six-year-olds, with old-fashioned frilly frocks replaced by mini skirts, plunging necklines and sequined crop tops, the report specifically criticises "Bratz dolls".

These outsell Barbie dolls in Britain by two to one and come dressed in miniskirts, fishnet stockings and feather boas.

Disney's Little Mermaid or Pocahontas "which have more cleavage, fewer clothes and are depicted as sexier than characters of yesteryear" are also picked out.

"The consequences of the sexualisation of girls in media today are very real and are likely to be a negative influence on girls' healthy development," said Eileen Zurbriggen, the APA's task force chairman. "As a society, we need to replace all these sexualised images with ones showing girls in positive settings. The goal should be to deliver messages to all adolescents — boys and girls — that lead to healthy sexual development."

Her comments were endorsed by Dr Jean Kilbourne, the co-author of a forthcoming book So Sexy, So Soon: The Sexualisation Of Childhood, who said clothing, toys and adverts were shaping a child's gender identity and values in the wrong way.

She saw a direct link between what was happening and the rise in under-age sex.

Dr Kilbourne told The Daily Telegraph: "You see these clothes everywhere, tight T-shirts for little girls saying 'so many boys, so little time', that sort of thing.

"Parents think it is clever but they cease to think that when their child becomes sexually active at 12. There is huge pressure on girls to look sexy and dress provocatively at a younger and younger age and boys are getting graphic sexualised messages. But parents can say 'no' and refuse to buy this stuff."

Recently Asda was condemned for marketing black lacy underwear to nine-year-old girls.

Last night Sue Palmer, the education consultant and author of Toxic Childhood, said: "The same mothers that dress their daughters up like tarts are probably the mothers going on demos against paedophiles. They don't make the connection between how they are dressing children and what they are so frightened of — paedophilia." A Bratz spokesman said its dolls were bought by over-eights. "The Bratz brand, which has remained number one in the UK market for 23 consecutive months focuses core values on friendship, hair play and a 'passion for fashion'."

The spokesman quoted Dr Bryan Young, a psychologist at Exeter University, as saying "parents may feel awkward but I don't think children see the dolls as sexy. They just think they're pretty".


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: damaged; generation; girls; marketingofevil; moralabsolutes; slutwear
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1 posted on 02/19/2007 7:19:18 PM PST by blam
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To: blam
But parents can say 'no' and refuse to buy this stuff."

Simple and correct answer.

2 posted on 02/19/2007 7:20:59 PM PST by Graybeard58 (Remember and pray for SSgt. Matt Maupin - MIA/POW- Iraq since 04/09/04)
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This is just more victimization. Weren't we told 25 to 30 years ago that these girls were damaged because they weren't allowed to express themselves sexually?


3 posted on 02/19/2007 7:26:38 PM PST by Perdogg
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To: blam
On a related note. I'm supremely upset that Veronica Mars is going off the air to make room for Pussycat Dolls: The Search for the Next Doll. Seriously one of the better role models on tv for girls is going off the air for that? Granted I have more selfish reasons than that though, the show is really good.

It didn't occur to me at the time how sad it was that my mom told my sister people probably thought she was older than she was because she didn't dress like a slut. My sister was 15 at the time.
4 posted on 02/19/2007 7:26:58 PM PST by Mr. Blonde (Like I always say, there's no "I" in team. There's a "me" though, if you jumble it up.)
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To: blam
"I don't think children see the dolls as sexy. They just think they're pretty".

I think this encompasses the whole problem. I don't especially care about the Bratz dolls (but I'd never buy one for any child) but the larger issue matters a great deal.

Parents who buy lacy black underwear for 9-nine-olds, and t-shirts that say "So Many Boys, So Little Time" for their 11-year-olds, probably do not think they are dressing their daughters to be sluts. Oh, no! Nothing like that!! They just think they're "pretty".

Allowing children to be children is good. Behaving like morality is not an amusing joke is good. Treating your child like you're training her as a child prostitute -- not so good. A lot of parents need to understand that it's not "pretty". It's evil.

5 posted on 02/19/2007 7:26:59 PM PST by ClearCase_guy (Enoch Powell was right.)
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To: blam
She saw a direct link between what was happening and the rise in under-age sex.

Dr Kilbourne told The Daily Telegraph: "You see these clothes everywhere, tight T-shirts for little girls saying 'so many boys, so little time', that sort of thing.

"Parents think it is clever but they cease to think that when their child becomes sexually active at 12.


It's more than likely the other way around. A more sexually active youth was followed by scanty clothing and such. The whole problem can be traced back to the moral decay of society.

But more wholesome clothes and toys for children is a good thing (even if the reasoning or motivation behind it is dubious).
6 posted on 02/19/2007 7:27:29 PM PST by Jaysun (I've never paid for sex in my life. And that's really pissed off a lot of prostitutes.)
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To: Perdogg

And 50 years ago damage was done when they watched Elvis do the hip shake.


7 posted on 02/19/2007 7:28:13 PM PST by Mr. Mojo
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To: blam
Good read.

My soon-to-be four-year-old daughter has heard me comment so many times, that whenever a commercial for Bratz comes on tv, she'll say, "Mommy, Bratz are bad."

8 posted on 02/19/2007 7:29:17 PM PST by RepoGirl ("Tom, I'm getting dead from you, but I'm not getting Un-dead..." -- Frasier Crane)
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To: blam

Don't the commie libs. teach that if you do have sex at a young age....that is no problem...you just take the unborn child and throw it away....liberals are so sickening....


9 posted on 02/19/2007 7:29:48 PM PST by There You Go Again
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To: ClearCase_guy

How many people actually believe in evil these days? And frankly, as I was sitting here typing this, I wrote, "the concept of evil."

One of the left's little accomplishments. Morality? It's to be scorned, you know.


10 posted on 02/19/2007 7:30:16 PM PST by CheyennePress
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To: blam

There is much overt sexuality shoved on our kids...and there is more subliminal stuff than that.

It's abhorent.


11 posted on 02/19/2007 7:31:06 PM PST by bannie
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A Bratz spokesman said its dolls were bought by over-eights. "The Bratz brand, which has remained number one in the UK market for 23 consecutive months focuses core values on friendship, hair play and a 'passion for fashion'."

Over-eights. I remember reading an article about these Bratz costumes in sizes from age 4 to age 16 (??). Every dad's worse nightmare - daddy's little girl dressed like a trollop.


12 posted on 02/19/2007 7:34:09 PM PST by cgk (Republicanism didn't make Conservatives a majority. Conservatism made Republicans a majority. [NEWT])
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That girl is tooooo young to dress that way for one. Second, she should have more self-respect.


13 posted on 02/19/2007 7:35:45 PM PST by Army Air Corps (Four fried chickens and a coke)
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To: blam

It is really pitiful.


14 posted on 02/19/2007 7:36:21 PM PST by Dudoight
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To: CheyennePress
I agree. And yet we live in a world where:

Parents murder their children (abortion)
Suicide bombers blow up crowds at shopping malls
Hijackers fly into skyscrapers
Children want to "put down" the elderly as if they were dogs.

And so many folks say, "Evil? That's a quaint old concept. It doesn't exist, you know ..."

I believe that Satan exists and is extremely active in the world today. Muslims worship him. Leftist politics is his creation. And he hides himself well enough that many people think the concept of Evil is "quaint" and old-fashioned.

15 posted on 02/19/2007 7:37:03 PM PST by ClearCase_guy (Enoch Powell was right.)
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To: blam
Creating little 'tutes...

sad but true...

16 posted on 02/19/2007 7:37:39 PM PST by Wings-n-Wind (The answers remain availtble; Wisdom is obtained by asking all the right questions!)
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To: cgk

Every dad's worse nightmare - daddy's little girl dressed like a trollop.








Oh no!
http://www.classicallibrary.org/trollope/index.htm


17 posted on 02/19/2007 7:38:08 PM PST by durasell (!)
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To: blam
The American Psychological Association's report says inappropriate marketing is leading to the sexualisation of children by a consumer society.

Ironic, considering that a few years ago the "American Psychological Association" produced a report claiming that sex between adults and children "wasn't necessarily contrary to the child's best interests".

18 posted on 02/19/2007 7:40:06 PM PST by DuncanWaring (The Lord uses the good ones; the bad ones use the Lord.)
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To: cgk

Gross.


19 posted on 02/19/2007 7:44:31 PM PST by B-Chan (Catholic. Monarchist. Texan. Any questions?)
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To: Graybeard58
Baloney...

Parents who have children in Public Schools have nearly zero chance of controlling the corrosive influences and sexualization.. When teachers are telling young girls and boys to "put a condom in their mouth.. they might like it"

All those who would blame the parents in this can go jump in a lake.

I kept my children away from the States Institutions of Base existence. I figured if Public Schools were not good enough for the children of out great "Leaders"
it was not good enough for mine.

It costs more today to put a child in public school than many private schools.

Public Education is Public Fraud plain and simple.

W
20 posted on 02/19/2007 7:45:02 PM PST by WLR ("fugit impius nemine persequente iustus autem quasi leo confidens absque terrore erit")
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