Uh, no. DOMA is essentially the Federal version of California Proposition 22, which passed by over 60% and prohibited gay marriage by statute. The California supremes threw it out. Then we barely passed Proposition 8, which was a Constitutional amendment and the California supremes were forced to respect it. DOMA hardly carries the force of a Constitutional amendment.
Uh, really? Get off it. You know what I meant. If DOMA had Constitutional problems it would have been challenged. And, yes, I know what “we” did.