What would you expect from her if she were horribly disfigured, say, in a car wreck or a fire?
I'm not married at the moment so it's a moot point for the time being.I was speaking theoretically.But I think that a sign of true love would be to do what I've suggested...particularly when the couple is younger.
Assuming you're currently married (which,I know,may not be the case) have you ever said anything to your wife like "honey,if I should die I'd want to see you remarry at some point"...? If you have,the point I made comes from about the same place in one's heart as does the "I'd want you to remarry" comment does.