Or die with them?
In principle I agree with you. From a pragmatic viewpoint, the problem is not that simple. While millionaires don't depend on these government programs, and many in the upper middle class could tighten their belts to handle the costs, that leaves the rest of Americans in a tough spot. The poor would be up a creek without a paddle. Same for the hard-working but unlucky ones who lose their jobs.
I prefer to have the governments tax us strictly for what's absolutely necessary to take care of their legitimate responsibilities. The bulk of peoples' earnings should stay with them. I would rather keep, and control, our money and take care of our own future. Frankly I don't know if we could handle all the huge medical bills that can hit anyone at any time.