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Really? Are We That Thin-Skinned?
Townhall.com ^ | February 5, 2010 | David Harsanyi

Posted on 02/05/2010 3:58:53 AM PST by Kaslin

White House chief of staff Rahm Emanuel is notoriously profane and uncouth. So it's not surprising that The Wall Street Journal reported this week that Emanuel had referred to some congressional Democrats as "retarded" in a private meeting with strategists. This has sparked a national kerfuffle.

Who can quarrel about the word "retarded" in this context? It is obnoxious and unnecessary. We should do our best to avoid it. After all, our goal as Americans must be to offend the guilty (some congressional Democrats) without dragging the innocent (the mentally disabled) into the fray.

But what was even more disturbing than finding out that political hacks use demeaning references in private assemblies? It was watching those who usually complain about political correctness dig deep for some of their own artificial outrage and begin playacting the victim.

Do conservatives really believe that an impolite utterance in private should be a firing offense? To begin with, the word "retard," unlike many other purposefully disparaging words, has legitimate meanings beyond insult. An example? Rahm Emanuel has a severe case of ideological retardation.

What is this guy supposed to do now, anyway? Emanuel apologized to the mentally disabled. He sincerely apologized to the mentally disabled. He apologized to the head of the Special Olympics for his remark (and was rejected). He probably apologized to God himself -- and the president, in return, almost surely forgave him.

Emanuel even joined a group whose sole mission is to eradicate the use of the word "retarded" from the English language.

Does intent matter? When a person uses the N-word, without a doubt, he has a very specific subset of the population in mind. He uses it to smear an entire race. When a person drops what henceforth will be known as the R-word -- as many of us did regularly during childhood -- there is no intent to denigrate those with disabilities.

Sarah Palin, whose youngest son has Down syndrome, asked the overwrought question "Are you capable of decency, Rahm Emanuel?" and demanded that the president fire Emanuel, as the word "retarded" is "a slur on all God's children with cognitive and developmental disabilities."

So dragging God's children with cognitive and developmental disabilities into a political tussle isn't that offensive?

Now, inevitably, someone will ask: What would happen to Karl Rove or another Republican if he made a similarly insensitive remark? I suspect it would look very much like the over-the-top reaction we're witnessing today.

Palin went on to write: "Every day they suffer its dehumanizing effects -- mockery, stigma, ridicule. This is a word that is incredibly damaging -- not only to the seven million people with intellectual disabilities in the United States, but also their friends, family and to all of us."

In truth, in nearly every way, the lives of the mentally disabled have improved vastly, from the care they receive to the quality of their lives to the respect they are given.

Though I've heard the R-word thrown around plenty (often, I'm sure you'll be shocked to learn, directed at me), I can't recall anyone's using it as a pejorative to describe a person who was actually disabled. Far from ridiculing the disabled, our culture has humanized them.

Emanuel certainly deserves to be reprimanded. But if his offense is worthy of losing a job, you have to wonder whether we really are a nation of the perpetually offended.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: abusivednc; abusiverahm; crueldnc; cruelrahm; dncabuseskids; dncvsdisabled; meandnc; meanrahm; obamavsdisabled; rahmabuseskids; rahmvsdisabled; whvsdisabled
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1 posted on 02/05/2010 3:58:53 AM PST by Kaslin
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To: Kaslin

While these people work day and night to destroy this country conservatives are debating whether we should be outraged at their use of this language.


2 posted on 02/05/2010 4:01:26 AM PST by driftdiver (I could eat it raw, but why do that when I have a fire.)
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To: Kaslin

Shhhh... we all cut R.E. a break cuz he’s such a cartoonish-looking freak. Just smile and ignore him, otherwise he’ll have another flare-up.


3 posted on 02/05/2010 4:04:27 AM PST by PieterCasparzen (Huguenot)
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To: Kaslin

I propose we ban the use of the word “outrage.”

This would silence at least half the politicians in the country and force them to deal with the issues instead of the sound bites.


4 posted on 02/05/2010 4:05:03 AM PST by paulycy (Demand Constitutionality.)
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To: Kaslin

I have to agree. We should not become what we despise. That is, people on the other side of the aisle who use political correctness like a hammer to bash their idealogical opponents with. Rahm Emmanuel should be fired, but not for this offense. For the offense of being a total idealogue who came up with the strategy to keep Republicans out of the health care debate and try to jam it through on a party line vote. It failed, so he should be out.


5 posted on 02/05/2010 4:05:35 AM PST by Old Teufel Hunden
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To: Kaslin

I agree completely with this article. Palin’s outrage is ridiculous and makes her look silly. She should have just ignored it instead of making a big scene about a retarded issue.


6 posted on 02/05/2010 4:06:26 AM PST by Onerom99 (I)
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To: Kaslin

I doubt seriously that Rahm has ever apologized sincerely to anyone; if apologized at all.


7 posted on 02/05/2010 4:07:08 AM PST by freekitty (Give me back my conservative vote; then find me a real conservative to vote for)
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To: Kaslin
Is it all that surprising that Palin would be extra sensitive to this comment when she it mocked and criticized for not aborting her retarded son?
8 posted on 02/05/2010 4:07:28 AM PST by 1776 Reborn
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To: Kaslin

Is it all that surprising that Palin would be extra sensitive to this comment when she was mocked and criticized for not aborting her retarded son?


9 posted on 02/05/2010 4:08:49 AM PST by 1776 Reborn
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To: Old Teufel Hunden

Agree 100%. Bump.


10 posted on 02/05/2010 4:09:07 AM PST by RightOnline
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To: Kaslin
I agree with this article. What happened to "sticks and stones will break my bones, but names will never hurt me!". What's going on is like two little kindergarten kids arguing in the sandbox. Dumb, or, D.

:O)

11 posted on 02/05/2010 4:10:19 AM PST by Old Badger (boy do opportunities abound everywhere for Real Conservatives!)
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To: Kaslin
Why insult people by using a word like "retarded" when a perfectly good word like "dumbass is available?

It has the added advantage of being perfectly applicable to democrats in general.

12 posted on 02/05/2010 4:11:49 AM PST by muir_redwoods (Obama: The Fresh Prince of Bill Ayers)
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To: 1776 Reborn

She can be sensitive and irritated all she wants. She should of bottled it up. GOP needs to quit wasting time taking silly snipes at immature liberal behavior. It takes away from the real issues ($1.5t+ deficit) and makes us looky petty.


13 posted on 02/05/2010 4:12:07 AM PST by Onerom99 (I)
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To: Kaslin
Obama and Rahm are USERS. Neither is a natural citizen.

Their goal is the USE and ABUSE of your children.


14 posted on 02/05/2010 4:19:08 AM PST by Diogenesis (Alea iacta est.)
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To: Onerom99

We should make as big a stink as possible about these things so the next time libs use the fake outrage that is such a part of their playbook we have episodes like reid and this to throw back in their faces.


15 posted on 02/05/2010 4:20:18 AM PST by gthog61
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To: driftdiver
"While these people work day and night to destroy this country conservatives are debating whether we should be outraged at their use of this language."
I used the word "retard" on a thread here last year. The people did not respond to my thought, but instead lambasted me over the use of the word retard. I got pictures of Sarah Palin's baby posted to me, and alot of other vile crap. Alot of the people here on FR are on one hand complaining about PC, while on the other hand practicing it. Some of the posters here need to take a good long hard look in the mirror, and realize that they, too, are part of the pc problem.
16 posted on 02/05/2010 4:20:44 AM PST by joe fonebone (A third party does need the majority to control the house...they only need 10%)
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To: muir_redwoods
Why insult people by using a word like "retarded" when a perfectly good word like "dumbass is available?

As a donkey-owner, I am outraged!!!!!

17 posted on 02/05/2010 4:21:36 AM PST by Erik Latranyi (Too many conservatives urge retreat when the war of politics doesn't go their way.)
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To: Onerom99
She can be sensitive and irritated all she wants. She should of bottled it up. GOP needs to quit wasting time taking silly snipes at immature liberal behavior. It takes away from the real issues ($1.5t+ deficit) and makes us looky petty.

Taking a few "snipes" at this guy doesn't take away from "the real issues". If she wants address this comment I believe she still has a right to do so in this country. She speaks for herself first, to the extent she represents us is no doubt secondary.

18 posted on 02/05/2010 4:24:14 AM PST by 1776 Reborn
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To: joe fonebone
Some of the posters here need to take a good long hard look in the mirror, and realize that they, too, are part of the pc problem.

Everybody take a big breath and repeat after me:

"Sticks and stones can break my bones but names will never hurt me."

I am convinced that this particular philosophy accounted for much more civility in generations past. You never hear it anymore. It needs to be brought back at every possible opportunity.

19 posted on 02/05/2010 4:24:43 AM PST by paulycy (Demand Constitutionality.)
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To: Old Teufel Hunden

“Rahm Emmanuel should be fired, but not for this offense. For the offense of being a total idealogue who came up with the strategy to keep Republicans out of the health care debate and try to jam it through on a party line vote. It failed, so he should be out.”

I agree with your sentiment, but we’re not dealing with rational people who have values similar to ours. This is where conservatives make a large tactical mistake, believing the logic of reasoned debate can change the mind of a leftist. If that were the case, newspapers across the country would have been screaming for Al Gore’s head and exposing the global warming scam. Instead, the opposite has occurred - the newspapers are defending the scam even more loudly.

Leftists are determined to destroy us by any means necessary. The time for civilized debate flew out the window long ago. Left wing idealogues understand only one thing - overwhelming force.


20 posted on 02/05/2010 4:25:00 AM PST by sergeantdave
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