Well, what you do is set aside some smaller care packets, have them all made up and ready to give away. Make it clear if you help someone out it’s a one time deal, and point them in the direction of the closest pantry or government help. You can’t give away your core foodstuffs, you are not obligated to give away all your food you’ve set aside to be responsible and not a burden on others. You have responsibilities - the others that depend on you, even if they are your animals. The longer you can live the longer you can still help out others or bug out to a place you can live to be useful. You don’t store up stuff so that strangers can come and kill you and reap the benefits of your hard work and planning. Then you may as well not even be doing it at all.
If people think you have a good store of food and other survival items, they will just crash your door down and kill you and take your stuff. Even if you think you have your position well defended, desperate people will study your perimeter for weakness. They will be relentless because they NEED what you have, ALL OF IT. Sharing a little just tips them off that you have more and are holding out.
You and your family’s life have no value to desperate people.
Go to survivalblog.com and read “Retreat Security. I am Your Worst Nightmare”. You will never take your security for granted again.
Excellent advice.