An OBGYN told my mom that she should have aborted my younger brother for something that never happened. My very-strong willed mom said she kicked him out of the room and switched doctors.
Thank God your mom knew the right thing to do.
As for me, I’m due in February, and opted to leave ob/gyn “care” for midwife care and am planning a home birth. The difference in care is night and day; with the midwife I actually feel like the baby and I are really cared for.
Let's hear it for strong willed moms! Mine was given some medication to make it easier for her to carry me in the womb....Thalidomide. Mom flushed the pills. (Thanks, Mom!)