If it was a mistake as you say, then she should just apologize as requested and then get her diploma and move on with her life.
"If it was a mistake as you say, then she should just apologize as requested and then get her diploma and move on with her life." I am not a fan of profanity, either, but the proper response to the above is, "'Request', hell!!! That was a DEMAND!"
Would you allow your employer to withhold a paycheck you had earned -- because you had said something he didn't like?
if your answer is "yes", then change your FRName to "Californican Freeper 20(whatever...)" -- because you don't have what it takes to be a real Texan...