Good for you
Not for everyone though
Yeah, it is.
God seemed to think it should be for everyone.
Not for everyone though
I was a virgin when I got married (the first time). Needless to say, we fell from the garden of eden. But our first year together was like this fellow conveys. Liberals lie about it being awful and akward. It had an element or a spark of blessedness.
I would recommend virginity to young people. It’s better than all the sluthood and porn in the world put together. In liberalism sex, there is a missing element of human nature or natural law you can not discover otherwise.
Yes, that’s what the Bible says, right?
But to your point "Not for everyone though" -- why? My wife and I did this -- and yeah, it is hard... especially for guys in their 20s, but it's also hard in this society for everyone.
People eXPECT you to have had sex before marriage, to live together etc.
but in my humble opinion, living together before marriage lessens the value of marriage because one thinks "oh, it's a trial period" and then one can jump from one trial period to another and this then extends to marriage again - people even have the idea that the first marriage is a trial period
Also, everyone has their own habits etc. -- the argument that one should experience this first before settling means that one can then divorce for the slightest inconvenience -- marriage should be more about learning to live with the other's foibles... accepting them,perhaps even getting to love the eccentricities
This is what I believe. What do you think?