Are you saying that you would have to be able to never leave your penthouse?
Your penthouse would be quiet, with beautiful views and a garden. Manhattan is much quieter than you think 20+ stories up. Some penthouses also have pools, hot tubs, tennis courts, etc.
When you drive out, you’re chauffeured door-to-door in a car as comfortable as your living room. Or in a limo if going out with friends. Most of the rich live in “boutique” neighborhoods and can walk around just fine too.
If you want to meet women, you simply go to a club and buy a VIP table. Beautiful women will literally line up to meet you and take turns sitting on your lap. Not to mention all the wealthy private parties going on with beautiful women from all over the world.
If you have a hankering for nature, beaches, etc you can take a quick helicopter ride to one of many hangouts.
I’m not into flashy wealth and gold-digging women but know plenty of people who live this way.